Yeah, I think it’s tempting when responding to accounts like yours to signal our fierce independence by saying “don’t let her treat you like that! Tell her where to stick it!”. Your course of action—letting her get her way some of the time and patiently helping her when she gets upset about your beliefs, while leaving her her own beliefs—is very likely to be the wise one, especially if you’re financially dependent on her.
Yeah, I think it’s tempting when responding to accounts like yours to signal our fierce independence by saying “don’t let her treat you like that! Tell her where to stick it!”. Your course of action—letting her get her way some of the time and patiently helping her when she gets upset about your beliefs, while leaving her her own beliefs—is very likely to be the wise one, especially if you’re financially dependent on her.
I hope you’re able to be more independent soon!