I initially read it in the same way you did, however I also think SquirrelInHell has a point. But I would say the place where he’s going wrong is sometimes (possibly most of the time) people don’t know what it is they’re seeking from a conversation. A lot of people don’t know themselves well enough, so having been promted with that question allows them to properly introspect, perhaps.. but I do agree that password based conversations are frustrating.
I initially read it in the same way you did, however I also think SquirrelInHell has a point. But I would say the place where he’s going wrong is sometimes (possibly most of the time) people don’t know what it is they’re seeking from a conversation. A lot of people don’t know themselves well enough, so having been promted with that question allows them to properly introspect, perhaps.. but I do agree that password based conversations are frustrating.