You realize that almost all people express appreciation or displeasure routinely, right? It’s a normal and reasonable part of human interaction, and it’s a skill that someone can try to improve without needing to feel too conflicted. Love bombing is far more extreme than anything that this post even touched on. So, while we’re linking to things, here’s one:
Love bombing is just a tool—its morality depends on how it is used. In a typical situation it is used to ruin the person’s natural resistance towards groups that exploit them; that is obviously evil.
A different thing would be to use love bombing with the person’s explicit consent, as a reinforcement for things the person values, and for nothing else. Preferably for a limited time specified in advance. It could be a great tool to overcome akrasia.
You realize that almost all people express appreciation or displeasure routinely, right? It’s a normal and reasonable part of human interaction, and it’s a skill that someone can try to improve without needing to feel too conflicted. Love bombing is far more extreme than anything that this post even touched on. So, while we’re linking to things, here’s one:
http://lesswrong.com/lw/md/cultish_countercultishness/
Love bombing is just a tool—its morality depends on how it is used. In a typical situation it is used to ruin the person’s natural resistance towards groups that exploit them; that is obviously evil.
A different thing would be to use love bombing with the person’s explicit consent, as a reinforcement for things the person values, and for nothing else. Preferably for a limited time specified in advance. It could be a great tool to overcome akrasia.
That sounds even more creepy. I like it.