I see quite a bit more stuff among the regular middle classes that looks like pure signaling waste
Could you please list some examples? I’ve been trying to think of some myself, and I came up with things like gift-based holidays (Christmas, Father’s day, birthdays, etc...), brand-name color-and-style-matching clothes, and the search for high status jobs (there is a reason “flipping burgers” is an insult). But it feels like there is so much difference between a homeless man living in a shelter with cheap food/clothing/electronics and a typical middle class man that I fear I might be missing something big, even after reading all the things you and lessdazed already mentioned. Which would bother me, because if it means I am unable to see the middle class as a special case of how to live a life.
Could you please list some examples? I’ve been trying to think of some myself, and I came up with things like gift-based holidays (Christmas, Father’s day, birthdays, etc...), brand-name color-and-style-matching clothes, and the search for high status jobs (there is a reason “flipping burgers” is an insult). But it feels like there is so much difference between a homeless man living in a shelter with cheap food/clothing/electronics and a typical middle class man that I fear I might be missing something big, even after reading all the things you and lessdazed already mentioned. Which would bother me, because if it means I am unable to see the middle class as a special case of how to live a life.