He just learned that keeping secrets is bad in general, and so he doesn’t by default, unless explicitly agrees to.
This is not true! My policy is simply that you should not assume that I will promise to keep your secrets after you tell me, if you didn’t check with me first.
I can confirm; Oliver keeps many secrets from me, that he has agreed to others, and often keeps information secret based on implicit communication (i.e. nobody explicitly said that it was secret, but his confident read of the situation is that it was communicated with that assumption). I sometimes find this frustrating because I want to know things that Oliver knows :P
I can confirm; Oliver keeps many secrets from me, that he has agreed to others, and often keeps information secret based on implicit communication (i.e. nobody explicitly said that it was secret, but his confident read of the situation is that it was communicated with that assumption). I sometimes find this frustrating because I want to know things that Oliver knows :P