The first LW post I was ever directed to was so bad (and the comments were waaaay worse) that I didn’t comment, decided never to look at this site again, and had to be convinced by the steady campaigning of a friend.
Of course, feminism (and sexuality) is my pet issue. Note the quote from Alicorn in the “sayeth the girl” post that rhollerith posted:
“I would almost certainly have vacated the site already if feminism were my pet issue, or if I were more easily offended.”
Maybe this is more evidence that I’m particularly hard to offend? Not sure.
I spent a while trying to find the first post I was ever directed to, but I couldn’t—sorry.
I found your blog, and I liked it, and it occurred to me that the mode of thinking and expression that’s common in feminist (or kinky, or gender-conscious) circles isn’t unrelated to the LessWrong mode. They’re different languages, but they’re similar in being explicit about social dynamics that are normally implicit, and encouraging people to self-modify their minds and second-guess their own thoughts in a way that provokes a knee-jerk “but that’s unnatural!” reaction in “normal” people. So maybe this is a good blog for feminists.
No, I didn’t comment on the post I’m thinking of. It was overwhelmingly sexist (in comments people made jokes about women being gold-diggers, for example), but it didn’t have to do with BDSM.
I’ve gotten better at “sounding rationalist” since I commented on that “is masochism necessary” post, and I’ve also gotten better at not getting angry. I look back at how I wrote my comment there and I’m a little surprised at myself.
The first LW post I was ever directed to was so bad (and the comments were waaaay worse) that I didn’t comment, decided never to look at this site again, and had to be convinced by the steady campaigning of a friend.
As I said, I spent a while trying to find it, but I couldn’t. I really wish I could find it, because it was a stellar example. After I failed to find it I thought that maybe it was actually a post at OvercomingBias (don’t even get me started on Robin Hanson), but I couldn’t find it when looking for that either. I think I must have deleted the email in a fit of rage.
I actually had not noticed that LWers alienated women in any way. And yes, I am female. And maybe not very observant.
Also relatively new here. You may have missed the big blow-ups.
I would be interested to see these...are they still on the site?
http://lesswrong.com/lw/134/sayeth_the_girl/
http://lesswrong.com/lw/13j/of_exclusionary_speech_and_gender_politics/
There are many more but I do not want to continue to dig them up.
The first LW post I was ever directed to was so bad (and the comments were waaaay worse) that I didn’t comment, decided never to look at this site again, and had to be convinced by the steady campaigning of a friend.
Of course, feminism (and sexuality) is my pet issue. Note the quote from Alicorn in the “sayeth the girl” post that rhollerith posted: “I would almost certainly have vacated the site already if feminism were my pet issue, or if I were more easily offended.”
Maybe this is more evidence that I’m particularly hard to offend? Not sure.
I spent a while trying to find the first post I was ever directed to, but I couldn’t—sorry.
I found your blog, and I liked it, and it occurred to me that the mode of thinking and expression that’s common in feminist (or kinky, or gender-conscious) circles isn’t unrelated to the LessWrong mode. They’re different languages, but they’re similar in being explicit about social dynamics that are normally implicit, and encouraging people to self-modify their minds and second-guess their own thoughts in a way that provokes a knee-jerk “but that’s unnatural!” reaction in “normal” people. So maybe this is a good blog for feminists.
Was this the post?
No, I didn’t comment on the post I’m thinking of. It was overwhelmingly sexist (in comments people made jokes about women being gold-diggers, for example), but it didn’t have to do with BDSM.
I’ve gotten better at “sounding rationalist” since I commented on that “is masochism necessary” post, and I’ve also gotten better at not getting angry. I look back at how I wrote my comment there and I’m a little surprised at myself.
Do you remember what post that was?
As I said, I spent a while trying to find it, but I couldn’t. I really wish I could find it, because it was a stellar example. After I failed to find it I thought that maybe it was actually a post at OvercomingBias (don’t even get me started on Robin Hanson), but I couldn’t find it when looking for that either. I think I must have deleted the email in a fit of rage.
My own vague recollection of this event says it was a Hanson post on the original OB.
Oh, oops, I didn’t even notice that last line, or didn’t notice it was talking about the same thing. Sorry.