Sometimes you want/need other people to help you, and if you display less suffering, they may assume that it’s not serious, and therefore won’t help you. This can be a problem for people who do not display suffering in neurotypical or culturally expected ways.
Sometimes there are situations where you are not allowed to say “no”, and then “I can’t, can’t anymore!!!” becomes the next best thing. Or sometimes people just suck at saying “no”.
Sometimes you want/need other people to help you, and if you display less suffering, they may assume that it’s not serious, and therefore won’t help you. This can be a problem for people who do not display suffering in neurotypical or culturally expected ways.
Sometimes there are situations where you are not allowed to say “no”, and then “I can’t, can’t anymore!!!” becomes the next best thing. Or sometimes people just suck at saying “no”.