The stability of geographical communities mainly comes from it being impossible to completely avoid people you dislike, or not meet people you could get along with when you frequently are at the same location. I lack the experience of living before the internet was well developed, but I actually prefer meeting and talking to people online. Even when you live in the same house as someone, it is still primarily through the words they say that you have a clue what is going on in their minds. The need for physical proximity seems like it is mostly nostalgia.
You are, of course, entitled to value whatever communities you wish for whatever properties you wish.
And, like you, I value online communities for the opportunity to encounter new minds.
That said, when a single parent needs a friend to look after their kid for an afternoon, or someone with a broken leg needs a friend to help them get groceries into their third-floor walkup, or someone delerious in an ICU needs a friend to sit with them for an evening, or someone who has just been dumped needs a friend to hold them for a few hours, or someone who just lost their home needs a spare bed to sleep on for a couple of weeks, or any of a million other similar situations arise, words on a screen aren’t terribly helpful.
I value geographical communities for all of those services and more.
But sure, for a community where nobody needs those kinds of services, physical proximity may not be a big deal.
The stability of geographical communities mainly comes from it being impossible to completely avoid people you dislike, or not meet people you could get along with when you frequently are at the same location. I lack the experience of living before the internet was well developed, but I actually prefer meeting and talking to people online. Even when you live in the same house as someone, it is still primarily through the words they say that you have a clue what is going on in their minds. The need for physical proximity seems like it is mostly nostalgia.
You are, of course, entitled to value whatever communities you wish for whatever properties you wish.
And, like you, I value online communities for the opportunity to encounter new minds.
That said, when a single parent needs a friend to look after their kid for an afternoon, or someone with a broken leg needs a friend to help them get groceries into their third-floor walkup, or someone delerious in an ICU needs a friend to sit with them for an evening, or someone who has just been dumped needs a friend to hold them for a few hours, or someone who just lost their home needs a spare bed to sleep on for a couple of weeks, or any of a million other similar situations arise, words on a screen aren’t terribly helpful.
I value geographical communities for all of those services and more.
But sure, for a community where nobody needs those kinds of services, physical proximity may not be a big deal.