“Don’t reward guys for keeping to bother you” seems obvious and unremarkable enough to follow without explicitly mentioning it all the time.
I suspect that women are very underrepresented among people who:
a) frame dating someone a “reward” for them, andb) carefully monitor the game-theoretic implications of their actions
Are you female? Do you think you have sufficient understanding of what empathic inferences you can make from your mind to theirs?
That wasn’t supposed to be an argument for such behavior being common (I’d guess it’s not particulary), just for the possibility of such behavior existing without being much talked about.
Yes, there can always be invisible evidence.
I suspect that women are very underrepresented among people who:
a) frame dating someone a “reward” for them, and
b) carefully monitor the game-theoretic implications of their actions
Are you female? Do you think you have sufficient understanding of what empathic inferences you can make from your mind to theirs?
That wasn’t supposed to be an argument for such behavior being common (I’d guess it’s not particulary), just for the possibility of such behavior existing without being much talked about.
Yes, there can always be invisible evidence.