I reject out of hand the idea that she should deconvert in the closet and systematically lie to everyone she knows.
I tend to agree with you, but I’m curious: Why do you say that?
I think she shouldn’t lie to everyone because it’s hard to do and she’s better off leaving town or maybe just not lying, depending on how Mormons treat non-Mormons in their midst. In Pennebaker’s “Opening Up”, he does a reasonably good job of demonstrating that systematic inhibition like that has negative health consequences.
I tend to agree with you, but I’m curious: Why do you say that?
I think she shouldn’t lie to everyone because it’s hard to do and she’s better off leaving town or maybe just not lying, depending on how Mormons treat non-Mormons in their midst. In Pennebaker’s “Opening Up”, he does a reasonably good job of demonstrating that systematic inhibition like that has negative health consequences.