I certainly agree that in cases where “growing a thicker skin” (which I understand to mean self-modifying to be less offended by a given act) is relatively cheap, it’s worth considering.
Yes, that’s what I mean. And “relatively cheap” has to factor in the benefit of all of the pain you avoid for the rest of your life by thickening your skin, not just the cost of modification of the “offender”.
Fair enough.
I certainly agree that in cases where “growing a thicker skin” (which I understand to mean self-modifying to be less offended by a given act) is relatively cheap, it’s worth considering.
Yes, that’s what I mean. And “relatively cheap” has to factor in the benefit of all of the pain you avoid for the rest of your life by thickening your skin, not just the cost of modification of the “offender”.
There’s a lot of win on that table.