An awful lot of people, probably a majority of the population, sure do feel deep yearning to either inflict or receive pain, to take total control over another or give total control to another, to take or be taken by force, to abandon propriety and just be a total slut, to give or receive humiliation, etc.
This is rather tangential to the main thrust of the post, but a couple of people used a react to request a citation for this claim.
One noteworthy source is Aella’s surveys on fetish popularity and tabooness. Here is an older one that gives the % of people reporting interest, and here is a newer one showing the average amount of reported interest on a scale from 0 (none) to 5 (extreme), both with tens of thousands of respondents.
Very approximate numbers that I’m informally reading off the graphs:
Giving pain: 30% of people interested (first graph), 2⁄5 average interest (second graph)
Receiving pain: 35% and 2⁄5
Being dominant: 30% and 3⁄5
Being submissive: 40% and 3⁄5
Rapeplay: >10% giving, 20% receiving, the second graph combines these at 2⁄5
Slut Humiliation (first graph): 25%
Humiliation (second graph): 2⁄5
Note that a 3⁄5 average interest could mean either that 60% of people are extremely into it or that nearly everyone is moderately into it (or anything in between). Which seems to imply the survey used in the more recent graph has significantly kinkier answers overall, unless I’m misunderstanding something. (I’m fairly certain that people with zero interest ARE being included in the average, because several other fetishes have average interest below 1, which should be impossible if not.)
If we believe this data, it seems pretty safe to guess that a majority of people are into at least one of these things (unless there is near-total overlap between them). The claim that a majority “feel a deep yearning” is not strongly supported but seems plausible.
(I was previously aware that BDSM interest was pretty common for an extremely silly reason: I saw some people arguing about whether or not Eliezer Yudkowsky was secretly the author of The Erogamer, one of them cited the presence of BDSM in the story as evidence in favor, and I wanted to know the base rate to determine how to weigh that evidence.
I made an off-the-cuff guess of “between 1% and 10%” and then did a Google search with only mild hope that this statistic would be available. I wasn’t able today to re-find the pages I found then, but according to my recollection, my first search result was a page describing a survey of ~1k people claiming a ~75% rate of interest in BDSM, and my second search result was a page describing a survey of ~10k people claiming ~40% had participated in some form of BDSM and an additional ~40% were interested in trying it. I was also surprised to read (on the second page) that submission was more popular than dominance, masochism was more popular than sadism, and masochism remained more popular than sadism even if you only looked at males. Also, bisexuality was reportedly something like 5x higher within the BDSM-interested group than outside of it.)
This is rather tangential to the main thrust of the post, but a couple of people used a react to request a citation for this claim.
One noteworthy source is Aella’s surveys on fetish popularity and tabooness. Here is an older one that gives the % of people reporting interest, and here is a newer one showing the average amount of reported interest on a scale from 0 (none) to 5 (extreme), both with tens of thousands of respondents.
Very approximate numbers that I’m informally reading off the graphs:
Giving pain: 30% of people interested (first graph), 2⁄5 average interest (second graph)
Receiving pain: 35% and 2⁄5
Being dominant: 30% and 3⁄5
Being submissive: 40% and 3⁄5
Rapeplay: >10% giving, 20% receiving, the second graph combines these at 2⁄5
Slut Humiliation (first graph): 25%
Humiliation (second graph): 2⁄5
Note that a 3⁄5 average interest could mean either that 60% of people are extremely into it or that nearly everyone is moderately into it (or anything in between). Which seems to imply the survey used in the more recent graph has significantly kinkier answers overall, unless I’m misunderstanding something. (I’m fairly certain that people with zero interest ARE being included in the average, because several other fetishes have average interest below 1, which should be impossible if not.)
If we believe this data, it seems pretty safe to guess that a majority of people are into at least one of these things (unless there is near-total overlap between them). The claim that a majority “feel a deep yearning” is not strongly supported but seems plausible.
(I was previously aware that BDSM interest was pretty common for an extremely silly reason: I saw some people arguing about whether or not Eliezer Yudkowsky was secretly the author of The Erogamer, one of them cited the presence of BDSM in the story as evidence in favor, and I wanted to know the base rate to determine how to weigh that evidence.
I made an off-the-cuff guess of “between 1% and 10%” and then did a Google search with only mild hope that this statistic would be available. I wasn’t able today to re-find the pages I found then, but according to my recollection, my first search result was a page describing a survey of ~1k people claiming a ~75% rate of interest in BDSM, and my second search result was a page describing a survey of ~10k people claiming ~40% had participated in some form of BDSM and an additional ~40% were interested in trying it. I was also surprised to read (on the second page) that submission was more popular than dominance, masochism was more popular than sadism, and masochism remained more popular than sadism even if you only looked at males. Also, bisexuality was reportedly something like 5x higher within the BDSM-interested group than outside of it.)