I, personally, think that places as i described doing something wrong, and mostly try to avoid them, and if i had to be there, I’m not playing by the rules. From my point of view, it’s sort of trap, to declare something ruse, and then when someone say it, to pretend you care only about the rudeness, that you don’t just forbid certain opinions to be expressed. it’s attempt to forbid expressing certain opinions while pretending to not doing that.
the ability to distinguish between directness and rudeness is asky, in my model, while guessy places tend to equate the two.
I, personally, think that places as i described doing something wrong, and mostly try to avoid them, and if i had to be there, I’m not playing by the rules. From my point of view, it’s sort of trap, to declare something ruse, and then when someone say it, to pretend you care only about the rudeness, that you don’t just forbid certain opinions to be expressed. it’s attempt to forbid expressing certain opinions while pretending to not doing that.
the ability to distinguish between directness and rudeness is asky, in my model, while guessy places tend to equate the two.