i think there is a social fiction of individual sovereignty that is present in most social situations that explains this http://lesswrong.com/posts/YiRsCfkJ2ERGpRpen/leogao-s-shortform?commentId=4qYeNi6HB3FFz5xyp
i think there is a social fiction of individual sovereignty that is present in most social situations that explains this http://lesswrong.com/posts/YiRsCfkJ2ERGpRpen/leogao-s-shortform?commentId=4qYeNi6HB3FFz5xyp