I’m struggling with the precise semantics of the spreadsheet. What does it mean to have a high “Is” number or “Want” number? From your example, it seems like the “Want” column is superfluous.
It’s all about the difference: If they are the same, leave everything as is. If “want” is higher than “is”, make some intentional decisions to invest into that relationship more. If “want” is lower than “is”, ask yourself wtf is going on there and how to change it.
I’m struggling with the precise semantics of the spreadsheet. What does it mean to have a high “Is” number or “Want” number? From your example, it seems like the “Want” column is superfluous.
It’s all about the difference: If they are the same, leave everything as is. If “want” is higher than “is”, make some intentional decisions to invest into that relationship more. If “want” is lower than “is”, ask yourself wtf is going on there and how to change it.