I assume the original intent of the quote was about romantic partners, where it means, “Instead of searching so hard, make sure to prioritize being awesome for its own sake.”
I was trying to repurpose it to express that action is better than preparing for something to fall into place more generally, and I think it’s appealed to people.
I originally read it as being about politics. We keep thinking that somewhere there’s a candidate worth voting for, and then things will be ok, but instead we should be trying to become the worthy candidates, even if only for local office. Or perhaps toward improving the world generally. Instead of deciding whether to pay Yudkowsky or Bostrom to work on existential risk, we should try applying our own talents. Similar to “[T]he phrase ‘Someone ought to do something’ was not, by itself, a helpful one. People who used it never added the rider ‘and that someone is me’.”
Skimming Gloria Steinem’s biography, I am more confident in this reading.
I assume the original intent of the quote was about romantic partners, where it means, “Instead of searching so hard, make sure to prioritize being awesome for its own sake.”
I was trying to repurpose it to express that action is better than preparing for something to fall into place more generally, and I think it’s appealed to people.
I originally read it as being about politics. We keep thinking that somewhere there’s a candidate worth voting for, and then things will be ok, but instead we should be trying to become the worthy candidates, even if only for local office. Or perhaps toward improving the world generally. Instead of deciding whether to pay Yudkowsky or Bostrom to work on existential risk, we should try applying our own talents. Similar to “[T]he phrase ‘Someone ought to do something’ was not, by itself, a helpful one. People who used it never added the rider ‘and that someone is me’.”
Skimming Gloria Steinem’s biography, I am more confident in this reading.
How isn’t “looking for” or “searching hard” action?