This is yet another situation where my favorite question is “What do I want?”
That seems sensible—and, actually, stating this explicitly might help avoid some types of conflict. When “I want to be entertained by having a nitpicky argument” meets “I want to convince you because I’m passionate about this,” someone’s going to wind up unhappy.
That seems sensible—and, actually, stating this explicitly might help avoid some types of conflict. When “I want to be entertained by having a nitpicky argument” meets “I want to convince you because I’m passionate about this,” someone’s going to wind up unhappy.