Point of evidence re learning to like any kind of music:
Until I was about 11 years old, I didn’t like music. I didn’t dislike it, per se, but I didn’t pay much attention to whether there was music playing or not. I have memories of going to the local Folk Festival and playing at the crafts table or playing tag, but no memories of actually noticing the live music that was playing. I was pretty much completely tone deaf at the time, and my parents decided not to put me in piano lessons along with my siblings, partly because they didn’t think there was much point for someone as unmusical as I appeared to be.
This changed when I started learning an instrument at school (flute) in seventh grade. Once I was actually using my own fingers and lips to produce notes, I started to notice melodies, and get them stuck in my head sometimes. I joined choir originally so that I wouldn’t have to go outside for recess in winter, but after a few months I started having emotional responses to music, having favourite songs, etc.
Skip forwards by 7 years of playing in various school bands, singing in various choirs, and learning enough classical music theory to start composing singable choir pieces, and almost all music affects me deeply once I know the song, whether it’s 16th century sacred choral music or modern heavy metal.
Summary: I see nothing contradictory about having to learn how to appreciate music.
Point of evidence re learning to like any kind of music:
Until I was about 11 years old, I didn’t like music. I didn’t dislike it, per se, but I didn’t pay much attention to whether there was music playing or not. I have memories of going to the local Folk Festival and playing at the crafts table or playing tag, but no memories of actually noticing the live music that was playing. I was pretty much completely tone deaf at the time, and my parents decided not to put me in piano lessons along with my siblings, partly because they didn’t think there was much point for someone as unmusical as I appeared to be.
This changed when I started learning an instrument at school (flute) in seventh grade. Once I was actually using my own fingers and lips to produce notes, I started to notice melodies, and get them stuck in my head sometimes. I joined choir originally so that I wouldn’t have to go outside for recess in winter, but after a few months I started having emotional responses to music, having favourite songs, etc.
Skip forwards by 7 years of playing in various school bands, singing in various choirs, and learning enough classical music theory to start composing singable choir pieces, and almost all music affects me deeply once I know the song, whether it’s 16th century sacred choral music or modern heavy metal.
Summary: I see nothing contradictory about having to learn how to appreciate music.