I wish this had actually been posted with the full text on LessWrong, but I stand by its core claim that “boundaries” are a confused category as commonly understood. I don’t have much to add other than Chris did an excellent job of explicating the issues with the usual understanding of “boundaries” and helps to reform a clearer understanding of how people relate and why “boundaries” can often lead to relational dysfunction.
I wish this had actually been posted with the full text on LessWrong, but I stand by its core claim that “boundaries” are a confused category as commonly understood. I don’t have much to add other than Chris did an excellent job of explicating the issues with the usual understanding of “boundaries” and helps to reform a clearer understanding of how people relate and why “boundaries” can often lead to relational dysfunction.