FWIW I don’t agree that being seen a way reliably has any consequences that matter. I should probably write a post sometime on my view about the importance of not respecting or paying much attention to people who are paying attention to you; this point of disagreement has come up a lot.
I see! Thx for clarifying.
FWIW I don’t agree that being seen a way reliably has any consequences that matter. I should probably write a post sometime on my view about the importance of not respecting or paying much attention to people who are paying attention to you; this point of disagreement has come up a lot.
I think we only disagree on the margin — about ‘how reliably’