One idea that is probably necessary but not sufficient is for the Commander (and anyone else with any authority in the house) to have an absolute commitment not to sleep with anyone else in the house.
Edit: with this rule, a different/​earlier version of me might have been interested. Without it I would never be.
One idea that is probably necessary but not sufficient is for the Commander (and anyone else with any authority in the house) to have an absolute commitment not to sleep with anyone else in the house.
Edit: with this rule, a different/​earlier version of me might have been interested. Without it I would never be.