Decide for yourself what you can forgive and what you cannot. For big vices, it is important to ask, “What is right?” For small vices, it is perhaps more important to ask, “What works?”
I don’t think it makes much sense to separate what works from what’s right in either case. If doing what works is important for the small stuff, why would it be any less important for the big stuff?
I don’t think it makes much sense to separate what works from what’s right in either case. If doing what works is important for the small stuff, why would it be any less important for the big stuff?