Which users you talk to is going to be such a biased sample though. I would expect lurkers both to be more likely to use lesserwrong and to be a majority of overall users.
I don’t have strong intuitions about whether this applies to commenting though—it’s plausible it doesn’t.
Note: the link for “Conform! Every time you walk outside the norm” doesn’t seem to be working.
When I attempt the focusing check, it immediately brings to mind the things in my life that are most good, or that make me feel most accomplished. Is the idea to iterate until you’ve pared it down to things you don’t enjoy and don’t feel satisfied with? Step 5 seems vaguely to imply the opposite.
As for felt senses, I’ve had the thought before that right after or right before talking to certain people, I feel like someone broke into my veins and replaced my blood with powdered sugar and helium. Uh, in a metaphorical-poetry way, not in a sciencey-agonizing way.