I’ve found that I’ve lessened this experience of reading something I’ve wrote and being horrified at its tone by going back and reading my comments at various sites. At least once a year I find myself going to my profile page at LW or some other site and just spending a couple of hours reading what I’ve wrote in the past. I think this has helped me be more aware of what my tone is conveying.
I agree with you.
I’ve found that I’ve lessened this experience of reading something I’ve wrote and being horrified at its tone by going back and reading my comments at various sites. At least once a year I find myself going to my profile page at LW or some other site and just spending a couple of hours reading what I’ve wrote in the past. I think this has helped me be more aware of what my tone is conveying.