Based on the conversation I have read here, it seems like ymeskhout is okay with not being ‘fully rational’ or being Dutch-bookable in certain ways, and I think he’s interpreting some of your hypotheticals as qualitatively in the same class as Pascal’s Wagers, and is making a sensible decision to go with his gut and to simply ignore them when making decisions about his relationships.
Based on the conversation I have read here, it seems like ymeskhout is okay with not being ‘fully rational’ or being Dutch-bookable in certain ways, and I think he’s interpreting some of your hypotheticals as qualitatively in the same class as Pascal’s Wagers, and is making a sensible decision to go with his gut and to simply ignore them when making decisions about his relationships.
Pascal’s Wager is a good comparison here.