But to understand better: if I’d posted a version of this with fully anonymous examples, nothing specifically traceable to Leverage, would that have felt good to you, or would something in it still feel weird?
I’d guess the OP would’ve felt maybe 35% less uneasy-making to me, sans Geoff/Aubrey/“current” examples.
The main thing that bothers me about the post is related to, but not identical to, the post’s use of current examples:
I think the phenomena you’re investigating are interesting and important, but that the framework you present for thinking about them is early-stage. I don’t think these concepts yet “cleave nature at its joints.” E.g., it seems plausible to me that your current notion of “frame control” is a mixture of [some thing that’s actually bad for people] and mere disagreeableness (and that, for all I know, disagreeableness decreases rather than increases harms), as Benquo and Said variously argue. Or that this notion of “frame control” blends in some behaviors we’re used to tolerating as normal, such as leadership, as Matt Goldenberg argues. Or any number of other things.
I like that you’re writing about something early-stage! Particularly given that it seems interesting and important. But I will wish you would do it in a way that telegraphs the early-stage-ness and lends momentum toward having readers join you as fellow scientists/philosophers/naturalists who are squinting at the phenomena together. There are a lot of kinds of sentences that can invite investigation. Some are explicit — stating explicitly something like “this is an early-stage conceptualization of a set of thingies we’re probably still pretty confused by, and so I’d like to invite you guys in to be fellow scientists/philosophers/naturalists with me about this stuff, including helping spot where this model is a bit askew.” Some are more ‘inviting it by doing parts of it yourself to make it easy for others to join’ — saying things like “my guess is that all of the examples I’m clustering under ‘frame control’ share a common structure; some of the reasons for my guess as [reasons]; I’m curious what you guys think about whether there’s a common structure and a single cluster here”. (A lot of this amounts to showing your scratchwork.)
If the post seemed mostly to invite being a fellow scientist/philosopher/puzzler with you about these thingies, while mostly not-inviting “immediate application to current events with the assumption that ‘frame control’ is a simple thing that we-as-a-group now understand” (it could still invite puzzling at current events, but would in my hoped-for world invite doing this while puzzling at where the causal joints are, how valid the ‘frame control’ concept is or isn’t and what is or isn’t central to it, a la rationalist taboo), I’d feel great about it.
I think I agree with ~everything in your two comments, and yet reading them I want to push back on something, not exactly sure what, but something like: look, there’s this thing (or many things with a family resemblance) that happens and it’s bad, and somehow it’s super hard to describe / see it as it’s happening.… and in particular I suspect the easiest, the first way out of it, the way out that’s most readily accessible to someone mired in an “oops my internal organs are hooked up to a vampiric force” situation, does not primarily / mainly involve much understanding or theorizing (at least given our collective current level of understanding about these things), and rather involves something with a little more of “wild” vibe, the vibe of running away, of suddenly screaming NO, of asserting meaningful propositions confidently from a perspective, etc. And I get some of this vibe from the OP; like part of the message is (what I’m interpreting to be) the stance someone takes when calling something “frame control” (or “gaslighting” or “emotional abuse” or “cult” or what-have-you).
Which, I still agree with the things you say, and the post does make lots of sort-of-specific, sort-of-vague claims, and gives good data with debatable interpretation, and so on. But there’s also this sort of necessarily pre-theoretic theoretic action happening, and I guess I want to somehow have that [hypothesis mixed with judgement mixed with action] be possible as well, including in the common space. (Like, the action is theoretic in that you’re reifying some pattern (e.g. “frame control”). It’s almost necessarily pre-theoretic, in the sense that you don’t even close to fully understand it and it’s probably only very roughly joint-carving, because the pattern itself involves making you confused about what’s happening and less able to clearly understand patterns. It’s an action, a judgement that something is really seriously wrong and you need to change it, a mental motion that rejects something previously accepted, that catapults you out of a satisficing basin; and you’re doing this action in a way that somewhat strongly depends or is helped by the non-joint-carving unrefined concept, like “this thing, IDK what it is really, but it’s really bad and I have to get out of it, and after escaping I’ll think about it more”.)
I see you your comments as partly rejecting, or at least incidentally pushing against, this sort of action: to “do it in a way that telegraphs the early-stage-ness” is, when speaking from a pre-theoretic standpoint, in tension with the vibe/action of sharply reclaiming one’s own perspective even when that perspective is noticeably incoherent (“something was deeply wrong, I don’t know what”). Like, it’s definitely a better artifact if you put in the right epistemic tags that point towards uncertainty, places to refine and investigate, etc.; but that’s harder to do and requires the author to be detailedly tracking a more complicated boundary around known and unknown, in a way that’s, like, not the first mental motion that (AFAIK) has to happen to get the minimum viable concept to self-coordinate on a narrative that says the thing is bad. Internally coordinating on a narrative that X-whatever-it-is is bad, seems important if you’re going to have to first push against X in big ways, before it’s very feasible to get a better understanding of X. (There’s bucket errors here, and it could be helpful to clarify that; but that’s maybe sort of the point: someone who’s been given a heavy dose of frame control is bucket-errored such that they doubt the goodness of holding their own perspective in part because it’s been tied up with other catastrophic things such as disagreeing with their social environment without having a coherent alternative or a coherent / legible grounds for disagreeing.)
This comment and your first one come-off as quite catty. E.g.,
I like that you’re writing about something early-stage! Particularly given that it seems interesting and important. But I will wish you would do it in a way that telegraphs the early-stage-ness and lends momentum toward having readers join you as fellow scientists/philosophers/naturalists who are squinting at the phenomena together. There are a lot of kinds of sentences that can invite investigation.
(Emphasis mine).
Your criticisms are mostly in the downward-direction, meaning, they don’t point out how to make what you’re criticizing better. Furthermore, they tend to ambiguate saying that the post could be improved (implying that we can make use out of what is being proposed) and saying the opposite:
I think the phenomena you’re investigating are interesting and important, but that the framework you present for thinking about them is early-stage. I don’t think these concepts yet “cleave nature at its joints.”
It’s hard to tell if you are being condescending towards the whole thing—implying that she should give up the whole endeavor, or if it would be more useful with more polish. However, I will point out that even saying “this would be good if it were more polished” doesn’t add much value to be said even if it were to be taken at face-value.
If it’s good, it should be useful even before it becomes more polished. If it’s bad, we should say why.
(I am a student of the particular school of philosophy which states that things can be useful to use or believe in even before they have been socially-agreed-upon to become high-status incumbent members of the orthodox school-of-thought).
I’d guess the OP would’ve felt maybe 35% less uneasy-making to me, sans Geoff/Aubrey/“current” examples.
The main thing that bothers me about the post is related to, but not identical to, the post’s use of current examples:
I think the phenomena you’re investigating are interesting and important, but that the framework you present for thinking about them is early-stage. I don’t think these concepts yet “cleave nature at its joints.” E.g., it seems plausible to me that your current notion of “frame control” is a mixture of [some thing that’s actually bad for people] and mere disagreeableness (and that, for all I know, disagreeableness decreases rather than increases harms), as Benquo and Said variously argue. Or that this notion of “frame control” blends in some behaviors we’re used to tolerating as normal, such as leadership, as Matt Goldenberg argues. Or any number of other things.
I like that you’re writing about something early-stage! Particularly given that it seems interesting and important. But I will wish you would do it in a way that telegraphs the early-stage-ness and lends momentum toward having readers join you as fellow scientists/philosophers/naturalists who are squinting at the phenomena together. There are a lot of kinds of sentences that can invite investigation. Some are explicit — stating explicitly something like “this is an early-stage conceptualization of a set of thingies we’re probably still pretty confused by, and so I’d like to invite you guys in to be fellow scientists/philosophers/naturalists with me about this stuff, including helping spot where this model is a bit askew.” Some are more ‘inviting it by doing parts of it yourself to make it easy for others to join’ — saying things like “my guess is that all of the examples I’m clustering under ‘frame control’ share a common structure; some of the reasons for my guess as [reasons]; I’m curious what you guys think about whether there’s a common structure and a single cluster here”. (A lot of this amounts to showing your scratchwork.)
If the post seemed mostly to invite being a fellow scientist/philosopher/puzzler with you about these thingies, while mostly not-inviting “immediate application to current events with the assumption that ‘frame control’ is a simple thing that we-as-a-group now understand” (it could still invite puzzling at current events, but would in my hoped-for world invite doing this while puzzling at where the causal joints are, how valid the ‘frame control’ concept is or isn’t and what is or isn’t central to it, a la rationalist taboo), I’d feel great about it.
I think I agree with ~everything in your two comments, and yet reading them I want to push back on something, not exactly sure what, but something like: look, there’s this thing (or many things with a family resemblance) that happens and it’s bad, and somehow it’s super hard to describe / see it as it’s happening.… and in particular I suspect the easiest, the first way out of it, the way out that’s most readily accessible to someone mired in an “oops my internal organs are hooked up to a vampiric force” situation, does not primarily / mainly involve much understanding or theorizing (at least given our collective current level of understanding about these things), and rather involves something with a little more of “wild” vibe, the vibe of running away, of suddenly screaming NO, of asserting meaningful propositions confidently from a perspective, etc. And I get some of this vibe from the OP; like part of the message is (what I’m interpreting to be) the stance someone takes when calling something “frame control” (or “gaslighting” or “emotional abuse” or “cult” or what-have-you).
Which, I still agree with the things you say, and the post does make lots of sort-of-specific, sort-of-vague claims, and gives good data with debatable interpretation, and so on. But there’s also this sort of necessarily pre-theoretic theoretic action happening, and I guess I want to somehow have that [hypothesis mixed with judgement mixed with action] be possible as well, including in the common space. (Like, the action is theoretic in that you’re reifying some pattern (e.g. “frame control”). It’s almost necessarily pre-theoretic, in the sense that you don’t even close to fully understand it and it’s probably only very roughly joint-carving, because the pattern itself involves making you confused about what’s happening and less able to clearly understand patterns. It’s an action, a judgement that something is really seriously wrong and you need to change it, a mental motion that rejects something previously accepted, that catapults you out of a satisficing basin; and you’re doing this action in a way that somewhat strongly depends or is helped by the non-joint-carving unrefined concept, like “this thing, IDK what it is really, but it’s really bad and I have to get out of it, and after escaping I’ll think about it more”.)
I see
youyour comments as partly rejecting, or at least incidentally pushing against, this sort of action: to “do it in a way that telegraphs the early-stage-ness” is, when speaking from a pre-theoretic standpoint, in tension with the vibe/action of sharply reclaiming one’s own perspective even when that perspective is noticeably incoherent (“something was deeply wrong, I don’t know what”). Like, it’s definitely a better artifact if you put in the right epistemic tags that point towards uncertainty, places to refine and investigate, etc.; but that’s harder to do and requires the author to be detailedly tracking a more complicated boundary around known and unknown, in a way that’s, like, not the first mental motion that (AFAIK) has to happen to get the minimum viable concept to self-coordinate on a narrative that says the thing is bad. Internally coordinating on a narrative that X-whatever-it-is is bad, seems important if you’re going to have to first push against X in big ways, before it’s very feasible to get a better understanding of X. (There’s bucket errors here, and it could be helpful to clarify that; but that’s maybe sort of the point: someone who’s been given a heavy dose of frame control is bucket-errored such that they doubt the goodness of holding their own perspective in part because it’s been tied up with other catastrophic things such as disagreeing with their social environment without having a coherent alternative or a coherent / legible grounds for disagreeing.)I liked both the points Anna made in her previous comment, and TekhneMakre’s comment here.
This comment and your first one come-off as quite catty. E.g.,
(Emphasis mine).
Your criticisms are mostly in the downward-direction, meaning, they don’t point out how to make what you’re criticizing better. Furthermore, they tend to ambiguate saying that the post could be improved (implying that we can make use out of what is being proposed) and saying the opposite:
It’s hard to tell if you are being condescending towards the whole thing—implying that she should give up the whole endeavor, or if it would be more useful with more polish. However, I will point out that even saying “this would be good if it were more polished” doesn’t add much value to be said even if it were to be taken at face-value.
If it’s good, it should be useful even before it becomes more polished. If it’s bad, we should say why.
(I am a student of the particular school of philosophy which states that things can be useful to use or believe in even before they have been socially-agreed-upon to become high-status incumbent members of the orthodox school-of-thought).