I think I understood the place, and I almost agree with you, but
There’s no possible potential husband who it’s a good idea to marry except for the single factor that they don’t support your goals. Such a person can’t exist.
I think it happens. I know a person in Crimea who wanted to live and work according to her specialty in Ukraine, but her groom did not want to leave his (and hers) homeland, the Crimea, and they married and live there. If there are people who decided to marry, and (hypothetical, but I think probable) people who decided not to, doesn’t it show that some of them decided ‘not sharing my goals’ is enough of a reason?
They had two conflicting vaues and made a choice, but I would hope that the groom still support her goals within constraints, like “Thank you for agreeing to stay in Crimea with me, lets plan together how you can achieve success while staying here.”
I think I understood the place, and I almost agree with you, but
I think it happens. I know a person in Crimea who wanted to live and work according to her specialty in Ukraine, but her groom did not want to leave his (and hers) homeland, the Crimea, and they married and live there. If there are people who decided to marry, and (hypothetical, but I think probable) people who decided not to, doesn’t it show that some of them decided ‘not sharing my goals’ is enough of a reason?
They had two conflicting vaues and made a choice, but I would hope that the groom still support her goals within constraints, like “Thank you for agreeing to stay in Crimea with me, lets plan together how you can achieve success while staying here.”
From what I heard of him he’s wonderful and probably does that:)