To be clear, I agree with this, which is a reason why I generally try to give the involved explanation that bridges to where (I think) the other person is; in my experience the opportunity rarely evaporates, and even if it does a straightforward refusal like you mention seems more promising.
To be clear, I agree with this, which is a reason why I generally try to give the involved explanation that bridges to where (I think) the other person is; in my experience the opportunity rarely evaporates, and even if it does a straightforward refusal like you mention seems more promising.