It’s none of someone’s business why unless you choose to volunteer that information, and needing to know why you’ve just been turned down is a massive low-self-perceived-status signal.
If asked in an honest (rather than a begging) tone it is a massive signal that they are a person seeking self-improvement.
Yes, this means that they have accepted that they have flaws, and therefore that their status isn’t as high as it could be. But I don’t see how that would be a problem?
Is it, in your eyes, better that someone accept that they are flawed, and seek to change that (by learning of their flaws, and fixing them) or that they believe themselves flawless?
If asked in an honest (rather than a begging) tone it is a massive signal that they are a person seeking self-improvement.
Yes, this means that they have accepted that they have flaws, and therefore that their status isn’t as high as it could be. But I don’t see how that would be a problem?
Is it, in your eyes, better that someone accept that they are flawed, and seek to change that (by learning of their flaws, and fixing them) or that they believe themselves flawless?