I know this for a fact, so I’ll back Kaj here.
It is very challenging, but not all such pairs are doomed. I know one that’s immensely stable and has been for over a decade; I knew another where the poly partner eventually couldn’t take it (and got involved with me months after the breakup).
I know this for a fact, so I’ll back Kaj here.
It is very challenging, but not all such pairs are doomed. I know one that’s immensely stable and has been for over a decade; I knew another where the poly partner eventually couldn’t take it (and got involved with me months after the breakup).