I honestly don’t understand the resistance to conceding me this point.
Surmise: that’s because you’ve only gotten around to mentioning your real objection in this post, two replies down from the top of the thread. It’s not the inconsistency. You mean to say you object to the prof’s use of his greater power in this situation to frame the conversation to his benefit.
You’re right that “I will not grade it” is the wrong phrase to use. The correct one is “I will fail you on this assignment,” which the prof is deliberately avoiding because being honest makes him look more responsible for the student’s bad outcome than necessary.
Standard Divisive Topic Warning: I suspect there are some here who object to the power dynamics in academia, which are covert for reasons both good and ideological. I know there are also academics here who will naturally take issue with that characterization.
Surmise: that’s because you’ve only gotten around to mentioning your real objection in this post, two replies down from the top of the thread. It’s not the inconsistency. You mean to say you object to the prof’s use of his greater power in this situation to frame the conversation to his benefit.
I don’t see how that’s more “real” than his other objection—he mentioned that it’s not obvious that “I won’t grade it” actually means “I’ll grade it zero”. And as a real autistic-spectrum person, I can completely sympathize with missing these expected transformations you’re supposed to make. The fact that he has additional good reasons doesn’t take away from this, and it doesn’t justify a teacher’s use of sloppy language when clear language is just as easy.
Clear language is not just as easy for neurotypicals.
I’m not claiming that it is, as a general rule. I’m just claiming that the intrepretative assumptions they make about their speech are much more likely to match their audience’s, thus mitigating the effect of unclear speech.
Your failing to know this isn’t an autistic spectrum thing.
I didn’t fail to know it; when teachers have said what komponisto complains about, I’ve understood what they really meant. But I also recognize it’s because I made some assumptions about the teacher’s disposition that someone wouldn’t necessarily realize had to be made, especially if they were autistic-spectrum.
As a recent example, one time I was asked, “Did you come prepared to make a payment today?” Since I didn’t know I would have to make a payment at that time, I said no, on the grounds that my failing to expect it is a lack of preparation. Then I realized they meant “Are you capable of paying today?” and were just using a roundabout way of saying it.
Oh, I hadn’t heard you explicitly claim that before. It doesn’t change my impressions at all but it is still interesting to fill in my mental check-list of people’s identification with the label.
Meh, it’s still self-diagnosed. I’ve never gotten a professional diagnosis, which is why I only claim I’m on the spectrum. And in the context of the comment you’re replying to, my point was just that my claim to the title is much more realistic than that of a certain someone else who doesn’t seem to understand the problem with using “I won’t grade it” to mean “I will grade it zero.”
Peh. Professional diagnosis. I’ve got professional diagnoses of all sorts of things purely because it allowed access (or cheaper access) to substances that authorities have decided to exert control over. To be honest I think it’s easier to act the part of having various diagnosable conditions than it is to act neurotypical. (And even there a lot of high IQ spectrum folks avoid a diagnosis because they’re so good at emulation.)
Surmise: that’s because you’ve only gotten around to mentioning your real objection in this post, two replies down from the top of the thread. It’s not the inconsistency. You mean to say you object to the prof’s use of his greater power in this situation to frame the conversation to his benefit.
You’re right that “I will not grade it” is the wrong phrase to use. The correct one is “I will fail you on this assignment,” which the prof is deliberately avoiding because being honest makes him look more responsible for the student’s bad outcome than necessary.
Standard Divisive Topic Warning: I suspect there are some here who object to the power dynamics in academia, which are covert for reasons both good and ideological. I know there are also academics here who will naturally take issue with that characterization.
I don’t see how that’s more “real” than his other objection—he mentioned that it’s not obvious that “I won’t grade it” actually means “I’ll grade it zero”. And as a real autistic-spectrum person, I can completely sympathize with missing these expected transformations you’re supposed to make. The fact that he has additional good reasons doesn’t take away from this, and it doesn’t justify a teacher’s use of sloppy language when clear language is just as easy.
Clear language is not just as easy for neurotypicals. It’s contrary to their models and their habits.
Your failing to know this isn’t an autistic spectrum thing. People are generally very bad at modeling minds different from their own.
I’m not claiming that it is, as a general rule. I’m just claiming that the intrepretative assumptions they make about their speech are much more likely to match their audience’s, thus mitigating the effect of unclear speech.
I didn’t fail to know it; when teachers have said what komponisto complains about, I’ve understood what they really meant. But I also recognize it’s because I made some assumptions about the teacher’s disposition that someone wouldn’t necessarily realize had to be made, especially if they were autistic-spectrum.
As a recent example, one time I was asked, “Did you come prepared to make a payment today?” Since I didn’t know I would have to make a payment at that time, I said no, on the grounds that my failing to expect it is a lack of preparation. Then I realized they meant “Are you capable of paying today?” and were just using a roundabout way of saying it.
My apologies for misunderstanding and being a little sharp about it.
Apology accepted :) (And I didn’t take your comment as breaking any kind of etiquette.)
Oh, I hadn’t heard you explicitly claim that before. It doesn’t change my impressions at all but it is still interesting to fill in my mental check-list of people’s identification with the label.
Meh, it’s still self-diagnosed. I’ve never gotten a professional diagnosis, which is why I only claim I’m on the spectrum. And in the context of the comment you’re replying to, my point was just that my claim to the title is much more realistic than that of a certain someone else who doesn’t seem to understand the problem with using “I won’t grade it” to mean “I will grade it zero.”
Peh. Professional diagnosis. I’ve got professional diagnoses of all sorts of things purely because it allowed access (or cheaper access) to substances that authorities have decided to exert control over. To be honest I think it’s easier to act the part of having various diagnosable conditions than it is to act neurotypical. (And even there a lot of high IQ spectrum folks avoid a diagnosis because they’re so good at emulation.)