I think you were on the right track with the word “quirky.” It was the OkCupid article’s game theoretic hypothesis that I was objected (referenced by avoiding people “inundated with messages” in your comment).
Gotcha. I saw their game theory as justifying why people think quirkiness is (sometimes) attractive, not something people are consciously doing.
I think you were on the right track with the word “quirky.” It was the OkCupid article’s game theoretic hypothesis that I was objected (referenced by avoiding people “inundated with messages” in your comment).
Gotcha. I saw their game theory as justifying why people think quirkiness is (sometimes) attractive, not something people are consciously doing.