I think you’re describing a very useful mindset here. I’ve used it myself, rather explicitly, by saying things like, “Okay. So what do we do now?” But something about the wording of, “Here we are” or “Hwa”, even in your example uses, strikes me as appearing dismissive. I can’t pinpoint exactly why. It reads/sounds like a shrug. I don’t think I would ever use this phrasing with anyone who didn’t already know of it, because I wouldn’t want to give the impression that I’m dismissing the other person’s emotions.
I think you’re describing a very useful mindset here. I’ve used it myself, rather explicitly, by saying things like, “Okay. So what do we do now?” But something about the wording of, “Here we are” or “Hwa”, even in your example uses, strikes me as appearing dismissive. I can’t pinpoint exactly why. It reads/sounds like a shrug. I don’t think I would ever use this phrasing with anyone who didn’t already know of it, because I wouldn’t want to give the impression that I’m dismissing the other person’s emotions.