But I think some people possess the skill of “being able to communicate harsh truths accurately in ways where people still find the interaction kind, graceful, respectful, and constructive.” And my understanding is that’s what people like TurnTrout are wishing for.
Kinda. I’m advocating less for the skill of “be graceful and respectful and constructive” and instead looking at the lower bar of “don’t be overtly rude and aggressive without consent; employ (something within 2 standard deviations of) standard professional courtesy; else social consequences.” I want to be clear that I’m notwishing for some kind of subtle mastery, here.
Kinda. I’m advocating less for the skill of “be graceful and respectful and constructive” and instead looking at the lower bar of “don’t be overtly rude and aggressive without consent; employ (something within 2 standard deviations of) standard professional courtesy; else social consequences.” I want to be clear that I’m not wishing for some kind of subtle mastery, here.