I went from ardently two-boxing to ardently one-boxing when I read that you shouldn’t envy someone’s choices. More general than that, actually; I had a habit of thinking “alas, if only I could choose otherwise!” about aspects of my identity and personality, and reading that post changed my mind on those aspects pretty rapidly.
I went from ardently two-boxing to ardently one-boxing when I read that you shouldn’t envy someone’s choices. More general than that, actually; I had a habit of thinking “alas, if only I could choose otherwise!” about aspects of my identity and personality, and reading that post changed my mind on those aspects pretty rapidly.