This reminds me of http://lesswrong.com/lw/vk/back_up_and_ask_whether_not_why/ but I prefer the phrasing “What caused you to X” over “Should I X” and it feels like an easier question to get into the habit of asking.
This reminds me of http://lesswrong.com/lw/vk/back_up_and_ask_whether_not_why/ but I prefer the phrasing “What caused you to X” over “Should I X” and it feels like an easier question to get into the habit of asking.