Aside from whpearson’s point (which I broadly agree with), it’s just a fact of life that most people are boring. And folks who literally pay for ordinary social interaction (seriously, that’s what she’s selling: Social Interaction As A Service!) are likely to be far more boring/awkward than average. A lot of dating success is simply “be less boring, and mske sure that you’re aware of when you’re boring someone to death, so you can course-correct”. Perhaps it’s just me, but I see this as fairly obvious.
To add to your point: these men probably not only self-select on having low charisma (otherwise they wouldn’t need escorts), but also on being obsessively focused on their work. This focus means that they don’t have much interesting to say on anything that’s not work-related, and may also contribute to having difficulties in their family life.
Aside from whpearson’s point (which I broadly agree with), it’s just a fact of life that most people are boring. And folks who literally pay for ordinary social interaction (seriously, that’s what she’s selling: Social Interaction As A Service!) are likely to be far more boring/awkward than average. A lot of dating success is simply “be less boring, and mske sure that you’re aware of when you’re boring someone to death, so you can course-correct”. Perhaps it’s just me, but I see this as fairly obvious.
To add to your point: these men probably not only self-select on having low charisma (otherwise they wouldn’t need escorts), but also on being obsessively focused on their work. This focus means that they don’t have much interesting to say on anything that’s not work-related, and may also contribute to having difficulties in their family life.