Isn’t there a bit of a contradiction when you say choice and uncertainty make you uncomfortable but when you ask other people to make choices you should frame it as giving them opportunity?
I’m not saying either is wrong but it does seem a little off to say “bad for me, good for you”. Or at least a bit of a paradox.
Fair point that that’s somewhat hypocritical, and undercuts my point. I think the point still often stands though—this is a bug I have, but it’s far from universal; and even for me, the answer to a choice is often obvious. But in those cases it’s uninteresting and scarcely feels like a choice.
Isn’t there a bit of a contradiction when you say choice and uncertainty make you uncomfortable but when you ask other people to make choices you should frame it as giving them opportunity?
I’m not saying either is wrong but it does seem a little off to say “bad for me, good for you”. Or at least a bit of a paradox.
Fair point that that’s somewhat hypocritical, and undercuts my point. I think the point still often stands though—this is a bug I have, but it’s far from universal; and even for me, the answer to a choice is often obvious. But in those cases it’s uninteresting and scarcely feels like a choice.