LauraABJ,
You seem to real-life-know at least one other commenter so some of your comments felt more casual. Discussions with people you know rarely follow the same path that discussions with strangers follow, but I didn’t see that you directly called anyone names or accused them of manipulative behavior. “Pity fucks” would be the stand out, but I wouldn’t throw anyone under the bus for their style choices if the substances is there. It’s just one thread after all. Neither courteous nor rude, based on this thread, I’d say you broke even.
LauraABJ,
You seem to real-life-know at least one other commenter so some of your comments felt more casual. Discussions with people you know rarely follow the same path that discussions with strangers follow, but I didn’t see that you directly called anyone names or accused them of manipulative behavior. “Pity fucks” would be the stand out, but I wouldn’t throw anyone under the bus for their style choices if the substances is there. It’s just one thread after all. Neither courteous nor rude, based on this thread, I’d say you broke even.