I agree that it’s possible for feelings to be relevant (or for factual beliefs to be relevant). But discouragement of discussion shouldn’t be enacted through feelings, feelings should just be info that prompts further activity, which might have nothing to do with discouragement of discussion. So there is no issue with Vanessa’s first comment and parts of the rest of the discussion that clarified the situation. A lot of the rest of it though wasn’t constructive in building any sort of valid argument that rests on the foundation of info about feelings.
I agree that it’s possible for feelings to be relevant (or for factual beliefs to be relevant). But discouragement of discussion shouldn’t be enacted through feelings, feelings should just be info that prompts further activity, which might have nothing to do with discouragement of discussion. So there is no issue with Vanessa’s first comment and parts of the rest of the discussion that clarified the situation. A lot of the rest of it though wasn’t constructive in building any sort of valid argument that rests on the foundation of info about feelings.
I roughly agree with this take.