I don’t have too many of these thoughts. The closest one is probably “By all means, someone like me shouldn’t have much trouble finding a quality partner, therefore the only possibility left is that I’m a soulless alien who cannot connect to other people and this fact is obvious to everybody except me.” Of whose implausibility I’m fully aware, so I don’t really take it seriously.
I don’t have too many of these thoughts. The closest one is probably “By all means, someone like me shouldn’t have much trouble finding a quality partner, therefore the only possibility left is that I’m a soulless alien who cannot connect to other people and this fact is obvious to everybody except me.” Of whose implausibility I’m fully aware, so I don’t really take it seriously.
But your rational part does understand it is mostly just number of approaches done multiplied by your looks, and everything else is secondary?