(hard to measure the length of a disagreement
that you cannot voice, or you cannot voice anymore; which persists for years or decades and never gets anywhere except “I’m younger, I’ll get to dance on his grave”.)
Alas, double-cruxing is a two-person game; you can’t make another person do it, you can only do it with someone who genuinely wants to. For everyone else, the best related trick I know is nonviolent communication.
(hard to measure the length of a disagreement that you cannot voice, or you cannot voice anymore; which persists for years or decades and never gets anywhere except “I’m younger, I’ll get to dance on his grave”.)
Alas, double-cruxing is a two-person game; you can’t make another person do it, you can only do it with someone who genuinely wants to. For everyone else, the best related trick I know is nonviolent communication.