(copied out of some notes I made when someone sent this in a Discord chat I’m in)
Hm. I like “systems vs goals” as a concept
I think that might be how I fuck up so much
I set goals and abhor not meeting them, so I get a kind of an ugh field about the concept of the thing I set a goal for
Right now, I’m avoiding cleaning the kitchen because I hate not being done even when I work
I’m going to try using the system “clean the kitchen” instead of my previous goal “get the kitchen clean” and see if that helps
Probably placebo etc etc but I don’t hate this half as much right now
(copied out of some notes I made when someone sent this in a Discord chat I’m in)
Hm. I like “systems vs goals” as a concept I think that might be how I fuck up so much I set goals and abhor not meeting them, so I get a kind of an ugh field about the concept of the thing I set a goal for Right now, I’m avoiding cleaning the kitchen because I hate not being done even when I work I’m going to try using the system “clean the kitchen” instead of my previous goal “get the kitchen clean” and see if that helps Probably placebo etc etc but I don’t hate this half as much right now