I’m not sure what cause you to like this framing and what it does to you psychologically, but personally it seems important to me to differentiate what’s aligned with my preferences and what’s fixable as 2 different concepts. I think having a single word for both “things that can be changed, but are okay as they are” and “things that can’t be changed, but are not okay as they are” would render my cognition pretty confused, but maybe that’s a cognitive hack to feel better or something.
Interesting—I do suspect there’s a personality difference that makes us prefer different framings for this. For me, it would be maddening to have preferences over unreachable states.
I’m not sure what cause you to like this framing and what it does to you psychologically, but personally it seems important to me to differentiate what’s aligned with my preferences and what’s fixable as 2 different concepts. I think having a single word for both “things that can be changed, but are okay as they are” and “things that can’t be changed, but are not okay as they are” would render my cognition pretty confused, but maybe that’s a cognitive hack to feel better or something.
Interesting—I do suspect there’s a personality difference that makes us prefer different framings for this. For me, it would be maddening to have preferences over unreachable states.