For additional data point: I am a man and generally care a lot about in-person social disapproval; it’s probably my main motivation when there’s another person in the room. I care much less about active adulation, and basically never even think about my own physical safety. I notice I am confused about whether this would count as “respect” or “safety.”
I’d say this is respect. If one is disapproved of, one is not respected.
I’d say this is respect. If one is disapproved of, one is not respected.