If it is, you should rewrite that article.
I never got the impression that she was there was something fundamentally wrong about her, I just got the impression that you had different goals than she had. In your article, it sounds as if you knew her for quite some time before she wanted marriage—you mention that you deconverted simultaneously, and this process took you about two years, as you describe in your article on that topic. I think it isn’t irrational to want more commitment from your partner after a two-year relationship. “Sarah”, on the other hand, pressed eugman for a lot more.
If it is, you should rewrite that article. I never got the impression that she was there was something fundamentally wrong about her, I just got the impression that you had different goals than she had. In your article, it sounds as if you knew her for quite some time before she wanted marriage—you mention that you deconverted simultaneously, and this process took you about two years, as you describe in your article on that topic. I think it isn’t irrational to want more commitment from your partner after a two-year relationship. “Sarah”, on the other hand, pressed eugman for a lot more.