“Then, figure out which of those behaviors attract women and find a way to perfect those behaviors.”
MBlume’s post already responded to this method: body language (all the different subtle aspects of it) is not consciously controllable in this way. Some aspects of it, to go with the current example of “alpha male,” can be, such as not to slouch. The only way I know to get the whole package of body language is from certain emotional states that subconsciously produce them. Now there are ways to get there other than through false beliefs, but that is one way to practice them, and as my comment pointed out, while abstractly there may be dangers involved (as in reading fiction, or in acting), if there were significant dangers, one place to look would be to actors like Daniel Day-Lewis.
Also, I doubt that you can act like a real alpha male when alone in your room. I suspect you can just think you are acting like one because your not seeing the nonverbal communication from others telling you that you are not.
Also, I doubt that you can act like a real alpha male when alone in your room. I suspect you can just think you are acting like one because your not seeing the nonverbal communication from others telling you that you are not.
Change the example to public speaking. I may be able to speak fine alone in my room, but that has little to do with my ability to do in front of others.
For MBlume, learning how to do the correct body language (of that character) in front of an audience is only a little different than doing it correctly alone. Learning the right body language of an alpha male is much different when in front of attractive women than when alone.
“Then, figure out which of those behaviors attract women and find a way to perfect those behaviors.”
MBlume’s post already responded to this method: body language (all the different subtle aspects of it) is not consciously controllable in this way. Some aspects of it, to go with the current example of “alpha male,” can be, such as not to slouch. The only way I know to get the whole package of body language is from certain emotional states that subconsciously produce them. Now there are ways to get there other than through false beliefs, but that is one way to practice them, and as my comment pointed out, while abstractly there may be dangers involved (as in reading fiction, or in acting), if there were significant dangers, one place to look would be to actors like Daniel Day-Lewis.
Also, I doubt that you can act like a real alpha male when alone in your room. I suspect you can just think you are acting like one because your not seeing the nonverbal communication from others telling you that you are not.
Change the example to public speaking. I may be able to speak fine alone in my room, but that has little to do with my ability to do in front of others.
For MBlume, learning how to do the correct body language (of that character) in front of an audience is only a little different than doing it correctly alone. Learning the right body language of an alpha male is much different when in front of attractive women than when alone.