Is it really essential that, as a community, we exclude or dismiss or reflexively criticize theists....
I don’t think we should exclude them. But that doesn’t mean we can’t confidently inform them when we know they’re wrong.
My favorite rationalist quote ever is “I don’t have to agree with you to like or respect you” (Anthony Bourdain). Just because we know theists are wrong doesn’t mean we have to be jerks about it. If Newton could make that mistake, anyone can, and we all know how hard it is to climb out of those sorts epistemic holes once you’ve found yourself in one.
But we shouldn’t confuse “not being jerks” with “pretending not to know things that we do in fact know, so that people don’t think we’re jerks”
how about scott aaronson.